Lately, I'd been pondering on why young girl's heart are constantly being broken by men and thought I'd shared a heart to heart discussion I had with a wise lady during the week. Ladies, I hope these bits of advise will help you becoming a better person and not forgetting; getting the man of your dreams. Goodluck! As u adhere keenly to them.
1. Fear God, it'S the beginning of wisdom. Love and honor your mother. Learn from her mistakes. It will save you a lot of headache from going to MFM(Mountain of Fire Ministry, Redeem Camp, Night Vigil ministries, etc) in your thirties (30s) and beyond. Do not say I did not warn you o. God n this blog na my witness.
2. You are more talented than you'll ever know. You don't need to sleep with your Boss/supervisor to get a promotion at work
or better grades at school. With Tom, Dick n Big Salami just because you want latest bb 10, ipad, Louboutin's shoes. Burn late night candles; put extra time to study and practice until you master your skill. Hard work still pays well and does not kill.
3. Women can build a strong support network. Don't let few ladies with “Pull Her Down” {PHD} syndrome discourage you from
cultivating true relationship with your female friends.
4. When a man you meet for the first time babbles about how much he earns working for an oil company and how rich he is, that
is a red flag. He is either a married smooth-talker who just wants to sleep with you or he is childish. Walk away from deceit.
5. Make your own money. Start small. Maintain a stable bank account. It will keep you out of trouble. Kill that laziness and stop with the bbm(blackberry messenger) status message - "BIS about to expire please assist me"...that's so lame, sluppy n gameless. Get off your butt and start something.
6. When you meet your Soul mate, don't forget to wear your most priceless ornament- submission and humility. But while
waiting for him, don't cling to any man to rescue you. Some men these days are also seeking for who to "devour" don't be a learner!
7. Know your body. Look at yourself in front of a full-length mirror at least once a week, naked and after clothed. Know your
body and how it works.
8. Life is a gift. Open it up...But to revel in it, you must be ready to put a lot into nurturing your gifts/ talents and skills. Start early.
9. Teenage ended at 19. Clocking 20 means doing away with childish behaviour. But it does not mean you should forget to have
fun. You can catch fun and not be dirty.
10. Learn the basic skills and let yourself grow- from how to keep your underwear clean, cook, socialize, and network. Also learn to how to drive a car.
11. Don't do drugs. It kills. Read books, it fortifies. Dance as often as you can, it liberates your spirit, soul and body.
12. Partnership builds bridges. Don't ever forget that.
13. Eat healthy. Learn to cook for yourself. Don't rely on noodles and eggs alone. The cooking skill will be useful in future.
14. Don't give up when you fail. Try again and again. Don't give up on education/learning.
15. Fear of the future. It is a state of mind you must learn to tame. Don't let fear pull the carpet from under your feet.
The Holy Bible tells us that God has not given us a spirit of fear but of power, love and a sound mind.
16. Let go of past hurts. You cannot move forward if you keep looking back. Holding on to bitter experiences and regrets will
stale your future.
17. Learn to exhale, love deeply and be kind to others, especially those of low estate, and the lowest of low.
18. You are beautiful the way you are. Don't compare yourself to others.
19. Prayer is the master key. Have faith in God and always have the courage to use your voice wisely. Dream big today. Fear
simply means False Evidence Appearing Real. Enjoy the highs and lows that come with being in your 20s but don't be afraid to
grow older. Live life to the fullest and don't forget to smile always!
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ReplyDeletethis is a source of inspiration to me. i will always keep my head up as a young lady.
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ReplyDeleteWhen we honestly ask ourselves which person in our lives means the most to us, we often find that it is those who, instead of giving advice, solutions, or cures, have chosen rather to share our pain
ReplyDeleteParents can only give good advice or put them on the right paths, but the final forming of a person's character lies in their own hands.
ReplyDeleteMy advice to people today is as follows:if you take the game of life seriously,if you take your nervous system seriously,if you take your sense organs seriously,if you take the energy process seriously,you must turn on,tune in,and drop out...Wall Street is the only place that people ride to in a Rolls Royce to get advice from those who take the subway...Don't follow any advice,no matter how good,until you feel as deeply in your spirit as you think in your mind that the counsel is wise.
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